A Chick on a Mission to Prove that Anything is Possible for Anyone...
I am in long distance relationship and i love him very much. He is continuing his education and i feel he is changing a lot. We been together for 3,5yrs. Its been good times and bad,but now he is shutting down inside. My inside feeling giving me worry's.
I'm sorry to hear that your having that "gut feeling" those are never good in my personal experience. Long distance is very hard, but many people are able to do it successfully. I think the key to doing it well is steady, open communication, and 100% trust. When trust is broken it destroys a LD relationship, since it's really the thing that keeps it together (with love of course). So my suggestion is, talk to him. Be 100% honest about your feelings and point blank ask him if his have changed. Be prepared for his (hopefully) honest response. If he promises that everything is ok then you need to trust him that it is and focus your attention on the good, and looking forward to when you will see him. REMEMBER what you focus on is what happens, so don't sabotage a good thing, don't create a self fulfilling prophesy, unless it's a good positive one :)....good luck!
Hi! i just happened to read your story on the secret website and saw your blog..! its really amazing..!!i am a 16 year old and a believer in the law of attraction. well the reason i am writing to u is to take some advice and ensure i'm going in the right path..1. how should i make my mother beieve in the loa?..she is very negative and stresses alot..i have shown her the movie..but it seems it doesn't have any effect on her... and this is effecting me also because i dont be on the positive frequency very long.. my exams r around the corner and i am using the secret to manifest my results,ie to get Achiever of the Year Award and to get full marks in maths and science and..to get an award 4 scoring the highest in science... and i am really working hard also..and 4 that it is imp 4 me to keep believing, have faith and remain in the positive frequency..i am doing gratitude and visualization also and i know i will achieve it, but it becomes a little difficult in a negative and stressful atmosphere..i really love my mother and seeing her in tension, i don't feel good at all...if you can give a suggestion, it will be of great help to me..thank you! :)
Well first off, it's soooo great that you are learning about the power of the law of attraction at such a young age that is amazing! It will help deliver the type of life you want for the rest of your life if you trust it and believe. I can understand your frustration in being in a negative environment with your mom not believing and it's easy to have the people around us pull us down. But if you can lead by example, and try to remind her of the more positive way to look at her situations it's possible that she can learn form you. The other side of that is even if she doesn't or is not willing and ready to learn yet, you can still teach your brain to be strong enough so that her negativity wont pull you donwn too. I use very simple things, like flipping the negative thought to it's opposite, or using little mantras. I try to remember the #1 most important principle that whatever your thinking about will predict your future, so knowing that it's easy to correct yourself when you are starting to go sideways. Maybe if you can help your mom understand that simple fact it might be what she needs to realize that she is drawing more stress and negativity into her life. Remember that you are stronger than you think, have good mantras ready to help you when your down and trust that if you put in the work results will follow!
thank you so much for your suggestion...i have also started doing the same thing...whenever I find myself getting annoyed or frustrated, i stop, and start saying affirmations,and using gratitude...and i read quotations that inspire me...and in my free time read the stories on the secret website...i try to be as positive as i can be and not get affected...and as for my mom..i feel this is not the right time..our exams are near..( my younger bro is totally dependent on her for his studies-main cause of her stress)but i will surely make her read the power after our exams are over..then at least she'll be free from tension..i have made her see the movie..its just that shes not able to put it into her life..so now is not the time. and also after my dream comes true ( my result) which will, i will prove it to her that the secret it actually works! thank you again so so much for your valuable time and suggestion!! god bless you! :)